'Tacky' bride called out after charging guests $65 to attend her wedding

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By Nasima Khatun

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A bride has been slammed as "tacky" after charging guests $65 to attend her wedding.

Taking to Reddit, a friend of the bride decided to expose her for being "cheap" after she decided to hash out some very strange rules and regulations for her upcoming wedding.

"...One of my closest friends is getting married and is charging her guests to attend the wedding," they wrote under the popular r/wedding thread. "I always knew she was cheap, so in one way I'm not surprised. But this is really not the norm in the country I live in, although it seems like 90s kids like me have started to charge for their weddings more and more which is just embarrassing."

They then went on to list the things she was charging for, which included attending the wedding, attending the ceremony only, or not being able to attend at all.

The first of the three options came with a charge of $65 per head which was to cover "food, music, decorations and venue."

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And the costs did not stop there.

"The evening before the wedding, they also have a dinner which you need to pay for (don't remember the price but cheaper than attending the wedding)," the anonymous user recalled. "If you want to sleep over at the venue, you need to pay around 100 dollars (I'm not in the US so the conversion is not entirely accurate). This applies both for the night between the pre-dinner and wedding day, and the night after the wedding. So that would be 200 dollars in total. I guess these prices are more OK since nobody is forcing you to attend that dinner and/or sleeping over. But if I'm INVITED to a wedding I shouldn't have to pay to attend the actual wedding?!"

On top of the growing number of costs, the couple also allegedly set up a page where you can "choose to contribute with money towards a gift. You have different options like cooking class, dance class, a trip, etc. It says 'gifts are not needed but welcome,'" the user stated, before adding: "But WHO would pay for a gift after they have to pay to attend the wedding?"

Not to mention other external costs like traveling to the venue, shoes, and an outfit for the given theme - it all starts adding up.

"The thing is, I KNOW they have money," the friend also added, stating that the end goal for this friend was to be "rich" so she wasn't sure if the gift money and the initial cost of attending the event was just going to be used to float that idea.

"It's just unfortunate because we've been friends for 12 years and it's sad to only be able to attend the ceremony because I absolutely refuse to pay," they added.

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Of course, Reddit users did not go easy on the bride after the revelation, with many branding her as "tacky" and "cheap."

"Hahaha, what the f*** - how can you be so cheap and tacky?" wrote one user. "OP, I don't know what your country is, but I really hope that this behavior doesn't spread to mine!! Also, I will need a follow-up about how many people actually attended the wedding."

"Ask her if you can not pay, but still come to the reception if you bring your own dinner and promise not to look at any of the decorations. That should be fair, right?" another joked before adding: "This is so beyond tacky and tasteless. I hope she gets roasted for it."

A third also stated: "I would send my regrets and my congratulations and that's it. The bride is out of her freaking mind."

What do you think?

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'Tacky' bride called out after charging guests $65 to attend her wedding

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By Nasima Khatun

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A bride has been slammed as "tacky" after charging guests $65 to attend her wedding.

Taking to Reddit, a friend of the bride decided to expose her for being "cheap" after she decided to hash out some very strange rules and regulations for her upcoming wedding.

"...One of my closest friends is getting married and is charging her guests to attend the wedding," they wrote under the popular r/wedding thread. "I always knew she was cheap, so in one way I'm not surprised. But this is really not the norm in the country I live in, although it seems like 90s kids like me have started to charge for their weddings more and more which is just embarrassing."

They then went on to list the things she was charging for, which included attending the wedding, attending the ceremony only, or not being able to attend at all.

The first of the three options came with a charge of $65 per head which was to cover "food, music, decorations and venue."

wp-image-1263242441 size-large
Credit: Hsyncoban/Getty

And the costs did not stop there.

"The evening before the wedding, they also have a dinner which you need to pay for (don't remember the price but cheaper than attending the wedding)," the anonymous user recalled. "If you want to sleep over at the venue, you need to pay around 100 dollars (I'm not in the US so the conversion is not entirely accurate). This applies both for the night between the pre-dinner and wedding day, and the night after the wedding. So that would be 200 dollars in total. I guess these prices are more OK since nobody is forcing you to attend that dinner and/or sleeping over. But if I'm INVITED to a wedding I shouldn't have to pay to attend the actual wedding?!"

On top of the growing number of costs, the couple also allegedly set up a page where you can "choose to contribute with money towards a gift. You have different options like cooking class, dance class, a trip, etc. It says 'gifts are not needed but welcome,'" the user stated, before adding: "But WHO would pay for a gift after they have to pay to attend the wedding?"

Not to mention other external costs like traveling to the venue, shoes, and an outfit for the given theme - it all starts adding up.

"The thing is, I KNOW they have money," the friend also added, stating that the end goal for this friend was to be "rich" so she wasn't sure if the gift money and the initial cost of attending the event was just going to be used to float that idea.

"It's just unfortunate because we've been friends for 12 years and it's sad to only be able to attend the ceremony because I absolutely refuse to pay," they added.

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Credit: FG Trade/Getty

Of course, Reddit users did not go easy on the bride after the revelation, with many branding her as "tacky" and "cheap."

"Hahaha, what the f*** - how can you be so cheap and tacky?" wrote one user. "OP, I don't know what your country is, but I really hope that this behavior doesn't spread to mine!! Also, I will need a follow-up about how many people actually attended the wedding."

"Ask her if you can not pay, but still come to the reception if you bring your own dinner and promise not to look at any of the decorations. That should be fair, right?" another joked before adding: "This is so beyond tacky and tasteless. I hope she gets roasted for it."

A third also stated: "I would send my regrets and my congratulations and that's it. The bride is out of her freaking mind."

What do you think?

Featured Image Credit: Image Source/Getty